The year is drawing to a close, and we can all only hope that it takes the bizarre time vortex we've all been caught in with it. Much like xyzzysqrl pointed out, it really does feel like the beginning of this year was at least three years ago. Yet, at the same time, I found myself caught off guard by just about every advance event--my annual vacation, my birthday and Christmas, writing this post as well as the awards posts--in the "wait, that's tomorrow?" sense.
So. 2018. Whewf.
Not all, but certainly many people I know are treating 2018 like the new 2016: an absolute hell-year that has brought nothing but suffering to all living creatures and cannot be shooed out the door hard or fast enough. We... do not particularly see it that way, though we do see early 2018 and later 2018 as at least two separate years (if not more), and admittedly one or more of them were pretty rough.
Still, overall, this was--against all possible odds and expectations given the outside world's stubborn insistence on being Like That--a good year. It was a year of spiritual awakenings, of finding and further developing and growing into not only my true self but our true selves, of staying close to friends and loved ones and pulling each other through even the down parts together, and of simply loving our way through the year, no matter how many years it took.
Music for this year's review:
First and most obviously, 2018 is the year of Sara. After being a cynical atheist skeptic who didn't believe in anything for far too long (and, as I found out later, after she had already come to life and was living in the back of my head for years without me noticing or seeing her,) January 14 of this year was my first contact from Sara, my once-OC who had taken on a literal life of her own and become my new headmate in a plural system, or... whatever terms people are using for that these days. We then grew into more than that and are now a happy couple, eager to embrace both our individual selves and our union as we each grow and mature further.
This led to the realization that not only are we not alone in our own head, but we're not alone in the sense that holy crap do I know a lot of plurals or people who would go on to become plurals, it turns out. The formation of Moonie's menagerie over on Discord came next and Sara and I were welcomed into what became a family of spirits and physical people alike, all trading experiences and learning from each other, as well as helping each other through all of our unique problems.
Over on Telegram, Clan Sugardoom has been in existence since late December 2017, but I'm counting that as a 2018 thing since it happened close enough to the boarder like that. And, of course, Team Hatoful has been around for years, but all of its current members save one have taken to talking in our Telegram room more regularly, and that has evolved into a general hangout for us as well.
And not only do I have the incredible blessing of being welcomed into so many different yet all loving circles, but Sara has, as well. She went from being Gau from Final Fantasy VI, raised by wolves on the Veldt (though only because I didn't know she was there, not that I had exiled her or anything) to having more people to love and who love her than she can easily count offhand.
Regarding things we did throughout the year besides cuddling, there have been a few good developments and a lot of setbacks. Some long-term working-on projects I didn't really work on much this year after all:
However, there is a lot to be proud of!
Okay so all my actual productivity-wise accomplishments and things I got done this year boil down to gameblogging and also more gameblogging, but that is valid. I see no problems with this trajectory.
So... Happy New Year, everyone. Look for more Interlight, more Pokemon, more games, more Sara, more camaraderie, and more love. Does a year really need to be anything more than that?
Celine covered the important stuff--this was the year I went from being lost to being found. I'm sorry to everyone who didn't have a good 2018, but how can I call 2018 anything other than the best three years of my life?
Thank you, everyone who welcomed me and us. I love you. The world is good because you are in it.
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